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Articles by Debbie Selsavage

Fatigue a predictable response to dementia!

By Debbie Selsavage | July 4, 2023 | Comments Off on Fatigue a predictable response to dementia!

While counseling families, or in my support groups, I hear it time and again: “Why does my loved one with dementia sleep so much?” If we understand the nature of …

Sometimes we just need magic!

By Debbie Selsavage | July 4, 2023 | Comments Off on Sometimes we just need magic!

One of the problems with dementia care is that we go into it with a negative attitude. This is understandable. It is terrible disease through which those afflicted slowly lose …

Care requires Trust before Task

By Debbie Selsavage | August 19, 2022 | Comments Off on Care requires Trust before Task

Undoubtedly, the most difficult kind of senior care is when our loved one is living with dementia. Changes in the brain that destroy their physical and cognitive abilities, but leave …

Understanding the Care Partner Relationship

By Debbie Selsavage | August 19, 2022 | Comments Off on Understanding the Care Partner Relationship

Often, when I begin a consulting or training relationship with a care partner for an individual living with dementia – whether that care partner is a family member or a …

The Care Partner as Student

By Debbie Selsavage | August 18, 2022 | Comments Off on The Care Partner as Student

Recently, my partner Ed and I traveled to North Carolina to visit Soltys Place, a dementia day care center run by Teepa Snow, the founder of the Positive Approach to …

Dementia and Firearm Safety?

By Debbie Selsavage | August 18, 2022 | 2 Comments

The National Institute of Aging reports that more than 17 million seniors in America over the age of 65 own a firearm, and states in a recent report, “memory, thinking, …

The Business Case for Dementia Friendly Communities

By Debbie Selsavage | August 18, 2022 | Comments Off on The Business Case for Dementia Friendly Communities

I conduct training for Dementia Friendly businesses, churches, and communities for humanitarian reasons. Our company’s slogan is “We all deserve the best,” which I believe especially applies to families, care …

Seek ways to keep your loved one engaged!

By Debbie Selsavage | August 18, 2022 | Comments Off on Seek ways to keep your loved one engaged!

Often, during counseling or while facilitating my care partner support groups, I hear the lament, “My husband (wife) can’t do anything! Not a thing!” Since most of these care partners …

Citrus Libraries provide dementia support for the community

By Debbie Selsavage | August 18, 2022 | Comments Off on Citrus Libraries provide dementia support for the community

Last month, Eric Head, who manages our Citrus County Libraries, was named Leader of the Year by the Florida Libraries Association. This is a distinction that I believe Mr. Head …

Building a relationship with a professional care community

By Debbie Selsavage | March 13, 2022 | Comments Off on Building a relationship with a professional care community

Although most Americans choose to care for their loved ones at home, many do not or cannot, but choose to entrust the task to an Assisted Living Facility (ALF), a …